For the guys.

Boy: I broke up with her.

His Best Friend: What happened?

Boy: She’s just too much for me.

His Best Friend: What makes you say that? What did she do wrong?

Boy: Well, for one.. She only cared about her appearance. Always had to look good, always took forever to get dressed! So insecure..

His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she wanted to keep your eyes locked on her? She wanted you to see that you have the prettiest girl under your sleeve and not think otherwise? I see..

Boy: Oh.. Well.. She’d often call me or text me asking where I am, who I’m with, telling me not to drink, not to play rough during sports. She’s so clingy!

His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she cares about your well being? Because she cares about you a lot? And her greatest fear is losing you. I see..

Boy: But.. Uhh.. Well, she’d always cry when I say something slightly mean. She can’t handle anything. She’s a crybaby!

His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she has feelings? And because she just wanted to hear you say you love her? I see..

Boy: I.. Well! You know, she’d get jealous easily. I could barely talk to other girls! She’s so annoying! I had to hide it from her so she wouldn’t bitch about it.

His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she just wanted you to commit to her? She thought you were faithful, but you lied so she could find out later and hurt even more? She just wanted the guy she loves the most to love only her. I see..

Boy: Well, she..

His Best Friend: You broke up with her because she’s good for you? She just wanted the best for you? She’s broken now because you were selfish. Are you proud?

Boy: I broke her heart.. Because I couldn’t see what was happening.. What happened to me?

His Best Friend: You lost the girl that loved you like no one else could. You see? You didn’t want her when all she ever wanted was you. THAT’S what happened.
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Think about it, when she’s too much for you.. She just wants the best for you. Because to her YOU’RE the best. If you don’t like something, talk to her about it. You mean so much to her. Don’t just give up. Don’t just leave because you want the easy way out. You're taking everything away from her. A part of her. The best part of her, yet you left her broken and alone.
And,
I'm not saying that the girl never makes mistakes.
YES,
she may be oversensitive,
she may be overprotective,
she may be overpossessive.
But it only voices down to one solid reason.
She loves you.
and that may be too much for you.
She loves you.
but maybe she didn't show it in a more appropriate way.

I'm pretty sure, she would if she could.


So guys, if you ever come across a girl who loves you whole-heartedly, with only the intention of spending her whole life with you. Don't let go.
She wants nothing from you,  but only you.


Life's about ups and downs. But a rainy day never lasts forever.
Hold on, work it out.

But if you know, he/she isn't the right one....
... it is wise to let go.

It's October..already.

I've always had dreams.
and
I dream big.
Unlike anything you've ever imagined.

You were a part of it.
Dreams of a very near future.
But now,
as reluctant as ever,
I have to,
slowly erase you... remove you..
from my magnificent dreams.
At first... I couldn't find a place for you in them..
Then I realised, I reserved the most special place in the world for you.
My heart.
You were positioned right beside the most important people in my life.
My family.
Yes, honestly you were.
You were.

As time passes, and as I slowly pull myself out of this.
As I slowly re-gain my senses.
I finally see how different we really are.
We were great in the beginning.
And then came changes, unwanted changes.
You went to a different "environment", surrounded by "different people".
It was because of this, I see how one can change.
Differences make you stronger...

But then I realised, we were too different.
But most importantly,




I realised that.
I didn't lose you...

You lost me instead.
I'm still very much myself.
Just a more experienced "me".


It's October...
Time flies...
I still remember less than 365 days ago.
...
I still remember a year ago.
...

But..what's there to remember...
If the other, has forgotten everything?
With poisonous words spilt on to what we once had as friends.


I can take a few tears every now and then , every once in a while.


I found a very pleasant past-time and "companion".
..
I never realised how lovely she really is.
And how she could temporarily ease the pain.
She reflects my mood sometimes...
The music that comes out from her..
Can be magical... when the right person plays.
And I would like to be the one.

要知道我的心情...就听听我弹的琴... 
我的琴,我的肩膀...


Munn, jia you.